One of the more intractable problems the biblical counselor faces is helping men conquer sexual sin.
Gallagher's book At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry is a great resource, for both the counselor and the
addict. He casts the problem as it should be presented: a matter of
idolatry, and offers excellent practical solutions and directions. His
use of Scripture is for the most part very solid, and Gallagher does a
good job at digging down to the roots of the problem, rather than simply
giving instructions for moralistic fruit-clipping.
The book is sufficiently graphic in its description of the spiral of degradation that a man can read it and identify with it, but not so graphic that it becomes a problem for a man already wrestling with sexual fantasy. Some reviewers have felt otherwise, so you'll want to read the book before you use it and form your own opinion.
I recommend working through this book chapter by chapter with a counselee. Don't be in a hurry--they need to digest what is being said. In my counseling I have them reading through this and Jerry Bridges' Pursuit of Holiness at the same time, to provide a more complete "put-off put-on" emphasis.
There's also a workbook available that my counselees have found useful.
I highly recommend this book.
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